Shakespeare said: “the sweetest honey, can make the taste numb, not too warm love can maintain for a long time.” Don’t love too much, don’t leave too far, and don’t get too close to each other
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Shi Tiesheng has a penetrating life motto in “I and the altar of earth”: “the name of a person is desire.” There is nothing wrong with being born with desire, but if we are keen on desire, we will be tired both physically and mentally
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We have to admit that 99% of things and people in the world are unimportant or have nothing to do with you
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My life was not rich, but my spirit was comparable to that of a prince
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You run for others’ laughter and sacrifice yourself for others’ affirmation
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In fact, they know that the dominant factor in social intercourse is not friendship, but fashion, interest or boredom.” Sometimes we always think that our friends are all over the world, and we are busy with all kinds of meals on weekdays
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Because ineffective socializing is consuming our energy
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In love, sometimes the other party just needs a stream, but you have to give him a sea, not only can’t move the other party, but will drown him
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Gathering is our normal life
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It is said that Kant, the philosopher, lived all his life within a radius of 16 kilometers of gunnysburg
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Every issue needs to have a relationship with people
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I’ve lived to the future
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Only when we know how to be “intimate” can we be “intimate” for a long time
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“If we have lost contact, please sit down.” So, including just a few people, the whole audience sat down Only the man stood alone on the stage
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Let love be a rough sea running between your coasts
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No job is worth all the enthusiasm of life
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If you love too hard, it’s easier to lose love
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The specific performance is that her boyfriend must live under her monitoring 24 hours a day and tell her what he does and thinks
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I can’t help thinking of the marriage between Lin Yutang and his wife Liao Cuifeng
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Some parties are not worth attending at all
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It seems that your life is not yours
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Zhou Guoping said: “people who are keen on social intercourse often boast that they have many friends
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In the complicated world, it is not necessarily a kind of success to know how to be a cold person
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In fact, you’re not socializing at all, you’re wasting your time Life is very short, be a person and do things, be a little cold, enthusiasm should be used for people and things, this life is worth it
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” The state of her life, though ordinary, is precious
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Their feelings are not diluted by the bed, but become more and more intense with the passage of time
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” The sea of life, when we work a little colder, focus on the life of a vegetable a dish, a porridge a meal, only to find that quiet has its own strength, it is a kind of love of life from the heart
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It has been found that the heavy drinking has caused pancreatitis and respiratory distress syndrome, so that it can be found in time, otherwise the consequences will be disastrous
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Before I saw a movie “I want to be with you”, when I felt sorry for the woman’s love, I also felt that all this was her own creation
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In the end, only a few people remained standing
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Once we get involved, it is difficult to get away
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Friendship is not built by eating one or two meals, and the resources of social network are not accumulated in the process of toasting
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We love each other, but we don’t need to be together all the time.” Because they know how to leave a blank in their marriage, they can live a harmonious life
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In fact, many achievements in life are achieved in loneliness
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In recent years, the student union came one after another
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No dinner, no salon, no party
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At this time, the hero said: “if you don’t remember my name, please sit down.” After hearing this, a large group of people sat down
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” Any relationship that is too close will not last long
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In a venue of 80000 people, all the people who have intersected with the hero are standing
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Don’t care too much about what others think of me or what others think of me.
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We should be a cold person, learn to “watch the flow of water calmly, and look at the world coldly”, and live a hot and noisy life
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The cold life style didn’t make him lose more, but let him have enough time and energy to create
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When Baijiu be unbearable to contemplate the last scene, a glass of white wine has just been down
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There is a question in Zhihu: do you like your life now? The highest praise answer is like this: “35 years old, the body can not endure, decided to quit the internet job
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The reader (ID: duzheweixin) was terrified when he read a piece of news
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Any section of too strong feelings, are not long
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02 know moderate “intimacy”, in order to long-term “boundless” there is a passage on the Internet, which sounds very deep: “leave some space for each other in the grinding of ears, let the wind dance among you
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In the book “please stop ineffective socializing”, there is a true saying: “you are busy communicating and coping with it frequently, and the embarrassment of talking with each other is everywhere
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Although they have been married for many years, they always sleep in separate beds
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There is a classic debate in “wonderful flowers” which is: do you want to go to a classmate party? Xue Zhaofeng said that if you mix well, you can go to a classmate party because your time is not so valuable, but you really mix well
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Husband and wife pay attention to intimacy, but also to understand coldness
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“If you don’t know my nickname, please sit down “If you haven’t seen me cry, please sit down…” Next, after each question, a large group of people sat down
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04 Xi Murong said: “people should live for themselves and like themselves in their life
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Be a “cold” couple with a strong heart
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If you want to deal with these three issues, you need some skills, and indifference is the best way
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Li from Shenzhen attended the party for a week and drank himself into the ICU
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Your time is very expensive, so you should do something more worthwhile
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Li has drunk a jin of Baijiu almost every day, often in a spirit of spirit and coming back drunk
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Yu Xiuhua wrote in the moonlight on his left hand: “more often, I just live, not sick, no desire, three meals a day
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In this world, 99% of things and people have nothing to do with you
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Love too much, is a burden, the boyfriend finally can not bear, run away
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In the words of his wife, Liao Cuifeng, “Lin Yutang likes to work late into the night, but I have my own rhythm of life
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Most of the time I live in a cottage in the country
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The hospital has been examined by the hospital
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When the crowd is gone, we are all tired
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It turns out that if you are indifferent to your work, there will be more possibilities in your life
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Mr
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When I returned to my hometown, I found a 9-to-5 job with a low salary
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In this world, there is no job worthy of our life
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His work and rest time is very regular, and local residents even use what he is doing to watch
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In the movie, the female owner keeps saying that she loves her boyfriend, but in fact, this kind of love is more than narrow-minded and selfish
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My children and wife were all around me
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Some time ago, I saw an advertisement called “how many people we will meet in our life”, and I felt deeply
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In the past week, Mr
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Love each other, but don’t let love become a shackle
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In the future, the heart of a plant grows slowly in my body
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On weekends, I occasionally had a table with my friends at farmhouse
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Our passion is like a torrent of desire
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People have to face three life issues in their life: work, making friends and love
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Effective gathering can connect with feelings, while ineffective socializing will consume personal energy
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How unexpected and how natural it is
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A few words, but told the truth of social
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Time is precious and we have to spend the right time in the right place
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